It is easy to get lost and confused by using Yahoo chat or AOL chat. When looking for the right chatrooms make sure there are not too many people in the rooms so you can have a decent conversation with someone and not feel overwhelmed. Also, if  you are new to chatrooms, only go into one at a time as you probably will not be able to keep up with multiple conversations when you first start. If someone starts bugging you or you do not like what they are talking about, do not complain on the post, just leave and find a different room to go to.